For some, the college experience is enriched by participating in the Greek system. Rushing a sorority or fraternity is almost a right of passage among college freshmen every year. While many have different reasons for rushing, the consensus is that most just want their college experience enriched by what the Greek system promises to bring to their lives. But is it that much of a benefit after all? According to some of the members of the University of Maryland’s chapter of the Delta Gamma sorority, their choice for “sisterhood” may have been misplaced.
In a recent email from an unnamed member of the sorority’s executive board, the young women were called out for being “awkward” and “boring” when mixing with their brothers from “match-up” fraternity Sigma Nu. The expletive-laden memo also calls the women out for spending too much time at events enjoying each others company, and not engaging their male counterparts.
“I do not give a flying f—, and Sigma Nu does not give a flying f—, about how much you f—ing love to talk to your sisters. You have 361 days out of the f—ing year to talk to sisters, and this week is NOT, I f—ing repeat NOT ONE OF THEM.”
The missive has brought some unwanted attention to the sorority, and has even garnered online parodies of the email being read aloud. A request was submitted to the web site Gawker, requesting that the email be removed, or at the least the names of the sorority and fraternity be removed from their accompanying article. To date, their request has not been granted.
What are your thoughts on this email message? Is it a proper message to send to young women? What was your Greek experience in college? We welcome your comments.